It’s a piece of the human condition; we always want to fix someone. We want to save someone from themselves so much that they will be grateful towards us forever. But we cant save everybody. I know it’s hard. As long as you’re not the reason for their suffering, you’re helping them.
If you ask anyone who knows me, I do not look nice. I’m used to being stepped on so I fake being tough and mean all day but I really do care about people.
AND I just want say that if you ever message me and I don’t answer back for a while, it’s NOT because I don’t care. Answering lots of heavy emotional questions is very draining for me, so I try to get to one at a time as fast as I can so I apologize if anyone ever feels discouraged if I don’t answer back right away. Love you guys!
I’m afraid of it too. You have to find someone you really love that’s worth the risk. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope it works out. Remember heartbreak is another part of life.