I think if the two people in the relationship are mature and have a strong connection, then sex in high school is okay. And at any age, remember to be safe :) If you’re not interested, that’s okay too. Find someone who respects your boundaries and your decisions.
If you’re not comfortable only staying friends with her, I’m sure she’ll understand. But if she enjoys having you around as a confidant and you’re okay with remaining as such, then staying friends with her is a very nice thing to do that I’m sure she’ll appreciate. And if not, that’s okay too. I’m proud of you for saying something.
I know plenty of people who dislike me. Treat every person you talk to with respect. The worst thing someone can say about you is that you were rude. Be nice to everyone, and if they didn’t have a high opinion before, they can’t say much of anything bad now.
You’re so sweet thank you :)
He’s a good friend for sticking with her regardless of her disinterest in a relationship with him. Remind him of that. That shows commitment and real compassion and care. When he says “I’m used to it by now”, he means he’s had unrequited feelings before this experience. Like I said, that’s admirable. Some people only love people who can love them in return. He’s a giver, which is a beautiful thing to be. Just keep assuring him that he’ll find someone who feels the same way.
Well 3 years can have different meanings depending on your actual ages. For example, Senior to Freshman relationships can be acceptable sometimes, but Sophomore to 7th grade is weird, right? Same thing in the other direction, if you’re both in college that’s normal, but sometimes, depending, Sophomores in college shouldn’t date Juniors in high school. Make sense? If you think it’s morally acceptable (and both your parents approve, because that can be its own problem), and she likes you too, I say go for it. But she’s young. Take it slow.